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""CXpt]mse Hcp Hm]ÀNyq\nän C\n Ch\p In«nÃ. H¶mtemNn¨p t\m¡v. \Ã tPmen... \Ã kmedn... ]ns¶ F´n\mWv Ch³ _n.sSIv ]mkmbXv...'' IntjmÀ Ipamdnsâ tPyjvT³ atljv IpamÀ tNmZn¡pIbmWv. IntjmÀ IpamÀ ]t£, Htc Ccn¸ncn¡pIbmWv. CSbv¡v, "AXp icnbmhnÃ... AX{X icnbÃ...' F¶p ]dbp¶pWvSv.
C¡mes¯ bphm¡Ä¡v Gsd {]nbs¸« kmedn, Hm]ÀNyq\nän, s_\^näv, C³{Insaâv, t_mWkv, {]tamj³ F¶o hm¡pIsfms¡ Xe§pw hne§pw hnXdnbmWv atljv IpamÀ kwkmcn¡p¶Xv. AXpXs¶ tI«psImWvSncp¶t¸mÄ C\n hcm³t]mhp¶ _p²³ GsX¦nepw kq¸ÀamÀ¡änembncn¡pw AhXcn¡pI F¶p tXm¶n.
kw`hanXmWv. Cet{ÎmWnIvkv Bâv I½yqWnt¡j\n _n.sSIv _ncpZapÅ IntjmÀ Ipamdn\v \Kc¯nse henb Hcp sF.Sn I¼\nbn tPmen In«nbncn¡pIbmWv. cWvSmgvNbv¡pÅn tPmen¡p sNÃWw. F¶mÂ, IntjmÀ IpamÀ tPmen¡pt]mhm³ X¿mdmhp¶nÃ. F´mWv {]iv\sa¶v Ah³ ]dbp¶nÃ. AXpsImWvSv tPyjvT³ A\pP\pambn h¶ncn¡pIbmWv.
tPyjvT³ ]pdt¯¡p t]mbt¸mÄ IntjmÀ Ipamdnt\mSv ]dªp: ""tN«³ ]dªsXms¡ tI«ntÃ? \à tPmen... \à i¼fw... ]ns¶ F´n\p aSn¨p\n¡Ww? HmSns¨¶v tPmen¡p Ibdv.''
AXptI«v Ipd¨pt\cw IntjmÀ IpamÀ H¶pw anWvSmXncp¶p. ]ns¶ ]Xps¡ ]dªp: ""HmSns¨¶p Ibdp¶Xp Xs¶bmWp {]iv\w. F\n¡v Dbc¯n Ibdm³ t]SnbmWv. I¼\nbpsS Hm^nkv ]{´WvSmw \nebnemWv.'' IntjmÀ IpamÀ ZpÀ`oXnbpsS ]nSnbnemsW¶p a\Ênembn. Dbcw IqSnb Øe¯v \n¡m\pÅ `oXn, At{Imt^m_nb(Acrophobia)bmWv IntjmÀ Ipamdn\v. Cu tcmKapÅhÀ Ft¸mgpw Dbcs¯ `b¶psImWvSncn¡pw. Ft´m `mKyw sImWvSv, ]Tn¡p¶ Ime¯v ¢mkv dqsams¡ {KuWvSv ^vtfmdnembncp¶p. apIfnte¡v IbtdWvSnhcpt¼mÄ ASp¯ Iq«pImtcmsSm¸w Ibdpw. A¡mesam¶pw HmÀ¡m³ Xs¶ Xm¸cyanà Fs¶ms¡ IntjmÀ IpamÀ ]dªp.
DbcapÅ sI«nS¯nte¡v IbtdWvS kµÀ`w h¶m Ah\v izmkwap«p¶Xpt]mse tXm¶pw. s\©nSn¸v IqSpw, hnbÀ¡pw... CsXms¡ Hgnhm¡m\pÅ amÀKw Dbc¯nte¡v IbdmXncn¡pIsb¶XmWv. Ct¸mÄ tPmenIn«nbn«pÅ Hm^nknte¡v en^väv hgnbmWp t]mthWvSXv. AXv Gsd `bamsW¶v Ah³ ]dªp.Cu tcmK¯n\v GsX¦nepw _meyImem\p`hhpambn _Ôw ImWmdpWvSv. am\knIm]{KY\¯neqsS AXpIsWvS¯m³ Ignªp.
Intjmdn\p ]Xn\mep hbÊpÅt¸mÄ Hcp Znhkw Ah³ Iq«pImcpambn {In¡äv Ifn¡pIbmbncp¶p. Ifn¡p¶Xn\nSbn {In¡äv t_mÄ ASp¯pÅ hoSnsâ sSdknte¡v t]mbn hoWp. B ho«n BÄ XmakanÃ. ho«n GtXm _mt[m]{ZhapsWvS¶ hnizmk¯n AS¨n«ncn¡pIbmWv. Iq«pImÀ¡nSbn Gähpw [oc³ Xm\msW¶ hnizmkw Intjmdn\pWvSmbncp¶p. Cu hnizmkw ]e kµÀ`§fnepw Iq«pImÀ apXseSp¡pIbpw sN¿mdpWvSv. Iq«pImscÃmw IqsS Hcp tImWn kwLSn¸n¨p. IntjmÀ tImWn hgn sSdkn Ibdn t_mÄ FSp¯p. Cd§m³ t\cw t\m¡pt¼mÄ tImWn ImWp¶nÃ. hoSn\pÅn \n¶pw B kabw Nne iÐ§Ä tIÄ¡m³ XpS§n. Ah³ `b¶phnbÀ¯p. s\©nSn¸v hÀ[n¨p. izmtkmÑzmkw thK¯nembn. Xmtg¡p t\m¡nbt¸mÄ Iq«pImsc Bscbpw IWvSnÃ. Ah³ t_m[t¡Snsâ h¡nembn.
Intjmdns\ H¶p `bs¸Sp¯m³ Iq«pImÀ ]än¨ ]Wnbmbncp¶p AXv. F¶mÂ, B A\p`hw Ahsâ DÅn InS¶v tcmKambn amdpIbmbncp¶p.
A¶s¯ B A\p`hw FÃm hniZmwi§tfmSpw IqSn HmÀabnte¡p sImWvSphcm³ ]dªp. AXn\p {ian¡m³ XpS§nbtXmsS Ah³ hnbÀ¡m\pw XpS§n. s\©nSn¸v IqSn. izmkKXn thK¯nembn. Ahs\ \Ãh®w dnemIvkv sN¿n¨ tijw im´ambn B Znhks¯ kw`h§Ä HmÀabnte¡p sImWvSphcm³ ]dªp. CXpXs¶ BhÀ¯n¨t¸mÄ Ahsâ B[n IpdªXmbn ImWm³ Ignªp. AcaWn¡qdn\pÅn Ah\v B kw`hw `bsam¶pw IqSmsX HmÀ¡m³ Ignªp.
ZpÀ`oXntcmK¯n\v Systematic Desensitization Technique hfsc ^e{]ZamWv. Cu NnInÂkbpsS t{]mt«mtImÄ A\pkcn¨v IntjmÀ Ipamdnt\mSv X\n¨v Hcp sI«nS¯nsâ ]¯mw \nebnte¡v Ibdp¶Xmbn k¦Â¸n¡m³ ]dªp. BZyw tImWnt¨m«n \n¡p¶Xmbn k¦Â¸n¡pI. `oXntbm am\knIkwLÀjtam tXm¶nbm DS³ dnemIvkv sN¿pI. hoWvSpw IbdpI. `oXn tXm¶nbm Ibäw \nÀ¯n dnemIvkv sN¿pI.
AcaWn¡qÀ t\cw CXv XpSÀ¶tXmsS Intjmdnsâ `bhpw D¡WvTbpw AI¶Xpt]mse tXm¶n. AXn\p tijw en^vän Ibdp¶Xmbpw CSbv¡v en^väv \n¡p¶Xmbpw hoWvSpw apIfnte¡v s]m§p¶Xmbpw k¦Â¸n¡m³ ]dªp. k¦Â¸¯n en^vän IbdnbtXmsS Intjmdnsâ s\©nSn¸v IqSn. dnemIvkv sNbvX tijw hoWvSpw en^väv apIfnte¡v s]m§p¶Xmbn k¦Â¸n¡m³ ]dªtXmsS Ahsâ `bw IpdªXmbn IWvSp. NnInÂkbnse ASp¯ L«w In vivo Desensitization BWv. Hcp sI«nS¯n\p apIfnte¡v t\cn«p IbdpI. IntjmÀ Ibdnþ`bsam¶pw IqSmsX.